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ATTN: Lonely girls/Girls in shitty relationships

There’s nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic. 

I’m dead guilty of being that. 

But, when you’re a desperate hopeless romantic.

That’s a whole different story. 

Be a romantic when it’s worth it.

Don’t fantasize and idealize the idea of it. 

Don’t put yourself through the agony of hoping and wishing that a certain guy will come into your life. Or that the guy that you’re with is going to change. 

If a guy is treating you like shit, don’t just brush it off, give him another chance, and hope that he’ll wake up one morning and realize that he should be treating you better. 

If you want a guy’s attention, don’t just wait around, or starve yourself to lose weight, or cake on makeup, and post provocative pictures, hoping that he’s going to approach you. 

Fucking do something about it. 

Being a girl, isn’t an excuse for being a fucking lazy ass. 

Take things into your own hands. 

Be the one to ask a guy out on a first date, or sneak off mid-date to pay for your guys’ meal, or to suggest that one thing that he’s been wanting to do. 

Be the one to sit him down and tell him that whatever he’s doing is hurting or losing you. And then LEAVE him, when he’s being a dumb asshole that refuses to change.

Having a pussy doesn’t mean you have a god-given right to be passive and have things thrown at you. 

Work for what you want.